Call off the search

So I have been going through life searching for the next best way to change myself into a better person. I have been to numerous therapy sessions and spent many late nights reading self help/motivational books. The reason I started this blog was to help myself. Recently I became aware of an amazing fact. I am complete, whole and amazing just the way I am. Some of you may already see where I’m going with this. 🙂 For those of you who do not let me explain. I recently attend the Landmark Forum. I must say I was shocked to find that not only did I get everything I intended to get out of it, I really got so much more. I walked into that place terrified of life and wanted to work on being more decisive and confident in my decisions. Through the amazing forum leaders, my peers and the pure genius format of the forum I uncovered a fictional story I had been holding onto for 27 years. I always had a feeling of never being good enough. So I blamed my father for these feelings. In realizing this was simply a story I had developed over 27 years I now created the possibility for myself to have a loving and close father son relationship. Because my dad is who his and he is an amazing dad. He wore the hat of being the bad guy for 27 years and still was there to support and love me. That realization is truly priceless to me. I also walked into that place not validating my feelings which in turn led me not to validate others feelings. I realized that wether your problems are big or small. They are still a problem and important. I always had the tough guy “suck it up” mentality. I had that mentality because I did not value myself enough so how could I truly value others. Again to me that is priceless. I have created the possibility for myself to have more meaningful relationships not only with loved ones but perfect strangers and have a better understanding of people in general. I could go on and on for days about the amazing time I had at the Landmark Forum. If you feel something is missing from your life. If you feel your relationships with others are missing something. Even if you feel you deal with life amazingly I could not encourage you to attend the Landmark Forum enough. It truly has transformed my life in ways I never thought possible.
If you would like more information about all this feel free to email me personally:
trustyourselfblog.com@gmail.com

Or go to their website:
Landmark

I invite you to really take a look and sign up as soon as you can because I honestly care about you as person. I know this is changing world one person at a time. We are all in this together and we are all the same.

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